Vanity

By Marvin Nemitz on August 4, 2026
 Vanity

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1 John 2:15-17 - Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. 16 For all that is in the world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life—is not of the Father but is of the world. 17 And the world is passing away, and the lust of it; but he who does the will of God abides forever.

I went to lunch with a good friend and we got to talking about the topic of vanity.

We were discussing about how vanity and pride is really at the heart of many of the struggles that we have in life. It is at the root of many of the spiritual failure that we see all around us.

Thank God for friends that you can have fun conversations with and thank God for friends that you can have deep conversations with.

This conversation was one of those profound moments when you take a good look at your own life and when you get a glimpse into the spiritual warfare that is hitting so many people in a profound way at this moment in society.

We were talking about a movie called – The Devil’s Advocate. It is not a good movie. I do not recommend it.  But it does have a classic line that reveals a great deal about Satan and his tactics.

It is about a law firm that turns out to be run by the Devil. The main character defeats his boss in a trial but then a friend and a news reporter appeals to his ego after the win and convinces him to do an interview because he is a star. The guy agrees to it and the reporter morphs back into the devil who says -

– “Vanity, Definitely my favorite sin”

  • Vanity Definition - 1. excessive pride in or admiration of one's own appearance or achievements.

Vanity primarily refers to excessive pride in one’s own appearance, abilities, or achievements.

 Excessive Pride as a (Personality Trait) 

This is the most common usage, describing a person who is overly conceited or obsessed with how others perceive them.

Today people call the time we are living in the me generation.

Vanity also means - Worthlessness or Futility 

Derived from the Latin vanitas (meaning "emptiness"), this definition refers to something that is valueless, pointless, or temporary. 

In Vain: Related to the phrase "in vain," describing an effort that produces no result (e.g., "a vain attempt"). this definition refers to something that is valueless, pointless, or temporary. 

Biblical Context: Often used in literature (like the book of Ecclesiastes) to describe earthly pursuits as "vapor" or "breath"—fleeting and ultimately empty compared to eternal things

The Bible relates it to chasing after the wind.

This issue of vanity highlights self-love, pride and ego.

It was pride and ego that were the undoing of Satan.

Satan is prideful, arrogant, narcissistic. Self-absorbed and self-aggrandizing.

Instead of focusing on God and others vanity is in love with everything self.

It is vanity and ego that are the most effective ways to corrupt and destroy people

Proverbs 16:18 - Pride goes before destruction, And a haughty spirit before a fall.

Pride was the undoing of Satan.

Isaiah 14:13-15 (NLT) - For you said to yourself, ‘I will ascend to heaven and set my throne above God’s stars. I will preside on the mountain of the gods far away in the north.  14 I will climb to the highest heavens and be like the Most High. 15 Instead, you will be brought down to the place of the dead, down to its lowest depths.

We are never more like Satan when we are in the mode of self-promotion and self-exaltation.

I want to say it again. Pride and Vanity were the undoing of Satan. Satan will use Vanity to be the undoing of us.

2 Corinthians 2:11- lest Satan should take advantage of us; for we are not ignorant of his devices.

(NIV) -in order that Satan might not outwit us. For we are not unaware of his schemes.

(NLT) - so that Satan will not outsmart us. For we are familiar with his evil schemes.

Me must be aware of how Satan uses Vanity as a weapon against us and we must be self-aware and Spirit-aware in order to be honest without selves and God when Vanity is having an effect on us.

I think so much of what people battle today deals with this issue of being vain.

How we look, how successful that we feel and how we perceive that we are viewed by others.

Pride is a desire for adulation (the praise of people), riches or achievement.

It is a preoccupation with being noticed and respected.

It is a perception of being accepted by people and admired.

1 John 2:15-17 (NLT) - Do not love this world nor the things it offers you, for when you love the world, you do not have the love of the Father in you. 16 For the world offers only a craving for physical pleasure, a craving for everything we see, and pride in our achievements and possessions. These are not from the Father, but are from this world. 17 And this world is fading away, along with everything that people crave. But anyone who does what pleases God will live forever.

So much that we do is ego driven. We live in an ego centric world.

Comparison – The desire for Greatness

– We talk about leaving a legacy.

Today people live their lives on social media – Look at me

We put our best foot forward

We often compare our ordinary to people’s best moments or their lies and misrepresentations.

Many of us are living in depression, discouragement and frustration because we are always trying to feed our vanity.

We are commanded not to love this world or the system that this world operates under.

For all that is in the world—the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life—is not of the Father but is of the world. 

16 For the world offers only a craving for physical pleasure, a craving for everything we see, and pride in our achievements and possessions.

And this world is fading away, along with everything that people crave. But anyone who does what pleases God will live forever.

It is so important that as Children of God that we know what is of our Father and what is not.

Satan tells us that what the world has to offer and how it will make us feel and how it will make us look is all of God. Yet all of it is empty.  None of it is from God.

It is worldly, fleshly.

But boy can we be vain.

And we are vain about the things that are temporary and not eternal.

Those who are vain have no real idea what the love of God is.

1 John 2:15 (NLT) - Do not love this world nor the things it offers you, for when you love the world, you do not have the love of the Father in you. 

I hope this verse hits you like a ton of bricks.

When my children were growing up, we knew that their sense of worth that their idea of belonging and their idea of meaning would be developed deeply by how much they knew that they were loved by us as their parents.

Today Satan has attacked the family so intensely that at least two generations struggle with knowing that they are loved and accepted.

Satan has removed Fathers from so many homes that children are left searching for meaning and validation in everything else because the love of their earthly father is not in them.

This also has a powerful after effect. Because they were never truly loved by a father, they do not know how to love themselves or love others or even how to accept love from others.

  • When the love of God is in you there is no need to find validation in anything else because we have been made whole and complete in the Father’s love.

The reason that everything else that the world has to offer feels so empty is because we are trying to fill our lives with things that will never satisfy; when only what God can fill us with will do that.

Many today have an emptiness inside that can only be filled with the Father’s love.

  • You cannot have a love for the world and the things of the world and a love for God at the same time.

Let me put this in terms that you can understand. You cannot have two loves.

People who are in love with the idea of being in love and having more than one lover are not really in love. They are vain. They are selfish and all about themselves.

Love by its very definition is selfless.

  • Love desires to please and love can only please one effectively.

Love serves.

Matthew 6:24 (AMP) - “No one can serve two masters; for either he will hate the one and love the other, or he will be devoted to the one and despise the other. You cannot serve God and mammon [money, possessions, fame, status, or whatever is valued more than the Lord].

But anyone who does what pleases God will live forever.

How do we know that the love of the Father and a love for the Father is in us? When we live to please Him.

1 John 5:3 - For this is the love of God, that we keep His commandments. And His commandments are not burdensome.

The wisest man in all the world spoke about vanity. He spoke about how worthless the things that Satan uses to bring about our down fall are.

Vanity - (meaning "emptiness"), this definition refers to something that is valueless, pointless, or temporary. 

The lust of the eyes, the lust of the flesh and the pride of life are all empty.

Solomon - a man who started out in wisdom tried to fill his life with everything that this world had to offer and found out how absolutely none of it could satisfy.

I heard someone say this quote – “I have heard it said that you could have $10 million and that it would never satisfy but I would sure like to try.

Well King Solomon did and he discovered that it didn’t.

Ecclesiastes 1:1- “Vanity of vanities,” says the Preacher;
“Vanity of vanities, all is vanity.” 

Ecclesiastes 1:1-4-(NLT) “Everything is meaningless,” says the Teacher, “completely meaningless!” What do people get for all their hard work under the sun? Generations come and generations go, but the earth never changes.

Ecclesiastes 2:4-9 - I also tried to find meaning by building huge homes for myself and by planting beautiful vineyards. 5 I made gardens and parks, filling them with all kinds of fruit trees. 6 I built reservoirs to collect the water to irrigate my many flourishing groves. 7 I bought slaves, both men and women, and others were born into my household. I also owned large herds and flocks, more than any of the kings who had lived in Jerusalem before me. 8 I collected great sums of silver and gold, the treasure of many kings and provinces. I hired wonderful singers, both men and women, and had many beautiful concubines. I had everything a man could desire! 9 So I became greater than all who had lived in Jerusalem before me, and my wisdom never failed me.

Ecclesiastes 2:17 - So, I came to hate life because everything done here under the sun is so troubling. Everything is meaningless (Vanity) —like chasing the wind.

Solomon did and had the things that most of us would be envious of and he discovered that it was all vanity. It was all meaningless.

The new Testament calls it wood, hay and stubble.

Solomon, I believe went to heaven but much of what he did with his life amounted to nothing.

1 Corinthians 3:12-15 (NLT) - Anyone who builds on that foundation may use a variety of materials—gold, silver, jewels, wood, hay, or straw. 13 But on the judgment day, fire will reveal what kind of work each builder has done. The fire will show if a person’s work has any value. 14 If the work survives, that builder will receive a reward. 15 But if the work is burned up, the builder will suffer great loss. The builder will be saved, but like someone barely escaping through a wall of flames.

As a young man Solomon had a solid foundation but what he built on it was tragic.

It is amazing how many people live for vanity only to realize that it was really nothing.

Ecclesiastes 2:17 - So, I came to hate life because everything done here under the sun is so troubling. Everything is meaningless (Vanity) —like chasing the wind.

How many people come to hate the life that they had built.

They discover that it is like chasing the wind.  It’s like a vapor or a breath.

It’s gone that quickly.

Most of us want to make a lasting difference with our life. They key is discovering what really matters.

First – it is to know that we are loved, accepted and cared for by Father God.

Second – Solomon actually came to his senses.

Ecclesiastes 12:13-14 (NLT) - That’s the whole story. Here now is my final conclusion: Fear God and obey his commands, for this is everyone’s duty. 14 God will judge us for everything we do, including every secret thing, whether good or bad.

The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding.

Fear God, reverence Him. Live to please Him.

Seek first the Kingdom of God and HIS righteousness and ALL of these things shall be added to you.

Matthew 6:31-33(NLT) - 31 “So don’t worry about these things, saying, ‘What will we eat? What will we drink? What will we wear?’ 32 These things dominate the thoughts of unbelievers, but your heavenly Father already knows all your needs. 33 Seek the Kingdom of Godabove all else, and live righteously, and he will give you everything you need.

– “Vanity, Definitely my favorite sin” – A quote from Satan that will cause us to examine our hearts. 

I hope this message challenged and refreshed you.

I pray that you will find victory over any vanity that you struggle with. May you find that God more than satisfies every desire and longing of your heart.

Know that you are loved.
Pastor Marvin & Dawn

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